Not at the Cove, of course, you're all lovely.
But there's no denying that some poetry communities and slam poetry events can attract some rather pretentious people, especially those with a superiority complex. Have you ever encountered anyone like this? What happened? How did you deal with it?
There was a time I definitely felt like I was getting scolded or spoken to like a child, which didn't sit well with me. No other person in this class spoke to me the same way, and I'm pretty self-aware so something was probably up with him. He was talking about his poem once and used a word I hadn't heard before, so I asked him what that meant and he made me feel like the biggest idiot. He even did that thing where he side-eyed everyone else in the room with a bewildered smirk on his face and said 'um... you don't know what [word] means?' No, Bobby. I can't know everything.
That was my experience, now share yours!
I have no time for people who belittle others for remaining teachable. There was a time when he didn't know that word either. Not sure if it counts, but I once began to fall for a guy who professed himself a poet. Took me embarrassingly long to realise he was ripping off other people's work.